Cooking verses mood.

If you do cook, you will know exactly what do I mean here.

Practise does a major roll. Understand cooking is another important roll but if your mood if not on the right track even after some good coffee, I would suggest you either pack some food or have some bread instead.

Else all your "effort" will end up in waste bin. Been there done that!

Reveal everything.

I do enjoy my time going thru FB but it came to my senses FB makes some people out there reveal everything about themself.

From with whom they are with, where about are they, what they did so on and on.

Where is privacy?

Back to earning...

This issue has never solve since the day I'm pregnant with my eldest boy, Aimann.

He is 5 this year and blessed with a young little brother whom he loves, angry with and day in day out without fail they fight. Bonding I guess.

Here I'm a happy with my life yet I just resist thinking about going back to working field. Guess I've been on my own feet for a long time before my deary hubby came into my life.

He gave me so much joy, love,sense of belonging yet I just help myself from thinking going back to work.

He has never stop me or either encourage me. Decision is in my hand. Thank you, Ling.

Guess all working lady out there would be able to understand my feeling of having your own income means you are standing strong and tall.

Still I gets different opinion from people around me. Some says don't you think its worth it kids grow in your own hands? Some has different opinion. Working means we cheerish each other more be it with your hubby or your kids. Feelings are mutual.

I love hubby and my boys so much but I think earning will make me balance in life.

Can anyone suggest what is good to do?

Wiwin our great helper.

Is been a year I didnt post at all, yes, at all.

We survived with helper for terrible 6 months (any some good in between). Well, its all up to oneself over everything.

Let's talk about the good first. No strangers at home. Boys helped out alot in between here and there. Way too young to understand what is going on and boys behaviour are under control and daily routine are not disturb.

Well, the bad is I was too exhausted with daily chore and simply cant manage it all alone. Hubby's job nature take him away couple of days and be back to us couple of days.

Finally here come our Wiwin, the new helper. Well, she is good and I must say that. With 2 years experience working as helper, nanny,gardener,etc. She is well polished with housework and I dont have to tell her what to do.

Must I not thank Allah for the blessing? Syukur Alhamdulillah for this help and not forgetting thank you too, Wiwin. She has put our live back to "normal". Normal as in we can concentrate with other things in life than keep doing house chores.

Wiwin has been with us for 4 months and as per contract she should be with us for 2 years. Let's hope she enjoy herself here with us and stay on for another couple of years to come.

My prayers to you Wiwin, may Allah watch over your family back home and blessed you with good health and stay happy.